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Wednesday, 07 March 2012

  • "Aw Lisa, that's terrible..."

    "... I'm sorry, I don't mean to laugh at you, but I'm just so glad I'm married, and I don't have to go through that ever again."

    You wouldn't believe how often people tell me that.

    I made a playlist for those of us who cause our friends to laugh with relief that they don't have to go through that ever again:

Friday, 10 February 2012

  • Slow Ride

    Traffic is a funny thing: a bunch of individuals all with the goal of getting from Point A to Point B, sharing the same means to accomplish those goals.

    The success of one's goal is utterly dependent on strangers. "Will all this traffic make me late?" "Is that man going to stay in his lane?" "Is that woman giving me the right of way?" On the other hand, driving is an individualistic activity. Whatever the driver wills is what happens. There's no democratic council that determines whether or not the car will turn right. The driver just makes it happen.

    I think that's why it's so frustrating to drive the streets of the San Gabriel Valley (my home for the past 8 months). We have so much autonomy in the act of driving, but yet so much dependence on the autonomous actions of others. When there are LOTS of "others," this dependence, and thus, frustration becomes more pronounced.

    I've had a long time to ponder this, seeing as it takes forever to get anywhere around here. It's best to expect every car trip will be a "slow ride." Otherwise my expectations are woefully frustrated.

Wednesday, 08 February 2012

  • The Vow

    The other day I saw an advance screening of the romantic, based-on-a-true-story film, "The Vow."

    As many of you know, I don't get out much, and I don't see a lot of movies. I walked away from "The Vow" thinking it was pretty good - not outstanding, but pretty good. But I started thinking that the likeable aspects of the movie are found in other, way better movies.

    The two super-good-looking main characters are married, but engaged in an ongoing conflict, which has some resolution in the end. But they did that better in "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof."

    Rather than action, most of the plot is comprised of conversation that conveys character and character development. But they did that better in "Before Sunrise."

    The protagonist returns to her family in a stressful situation, digs up the past, and learns to forgive. But they did that better in "You Can Count on Me."

    The leading man is surrounded by a supportive community as he attempts to navigate an unusual romantic relationship. But they did that better in "Lars and the Real Girl."

    Jessica Lange is wonderful, but totally underutilized in a small, this-character-could-be-interesting supporting role. But they did that better in "Big Fish."

    It celebrated the power of a husband's enduring love for his wife. But they did that better in "Up."

    Pretty good movie. But not outstanding.

Monday, 09 January 2012

  • Trendy Jeans

    My cousin E is eight years older than me. As we were growing up, she looked out for me, got me food at family dinners, taught me how to write in cursive... general good-cousin stuff.

    In my 1990s teenage years, when E was a young married lady, I remember thinking, "Why does E wear those jeans? They're form-fitting and tapered at the ankle, and nobody wears jeans like that anymore. She would look so much younger if she wore trendy, baggy jeans."

    I guess she just didn't care about keeping up with the trend in jeans.

    My cousin A is a teenager. Teenagers these days are always wearing form-fitting jeans, tapered at the ankle. Not long ago she asked me, "Why are your jeans so baggy?"

    I guess i just don't care about keeping up with the trend in jeans.

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